I consulted a lawyer about a lawsuit for divorce and damage. I have a good chance for winning the lawsuit for divorce 

and not a good chance for winning for compensation for damage because I don't have enough evidence.  

My husband does all the chores at home and let me spend as much money as I want as far as I don't bring up the issue of infidelity. 

It has been 10 months since I started treatment. 

I am so proud of myself that I started taking the treatment. 

My husband had been having an affair for such a long time. 

I was deeply wounded and suffered from panic disorder, rage, and insomnia. I barely managed daily life. 

Any reminder of husband infidelity made my blood pressure skyrocket. 

These days, I feel calm and nothing related with infidelity affects me seriously. 

Now, I understand why Mr. Kim said :

1. I shouldn't take practical measures before treatment. 

2. My husband would never return to me unless I am cured. 

3. I shouldn't pretend not to know about infidelity or just forgive him. 

4. I could easily solve the problem by letting him know that I know. 

5. I could continue observing my religion if I want to.

6. Psychology counseling only aggravates the condition of post traumatic stress. 

I decided not to file a lawsuit for divorce and postpone the lawsuit for damage until I obtain enough evidence. 

My husband comes home right after work these days, finally in 20 years of marriage. 

He stays at home during weekends. He gives me enough money to spend. He does all the house chores. 

He cooks for me and tries to have sex with me as often as possible. 



I think I will regret if I get a divorce now since the adulteress is still working at the company my husband owns and I have not reached complete cure. . 

I can focus better on what I do these days. I pray a lot for my husband and my children. 

I pray for Mr. Kim, too.  

The adulteress seems to be seeking pleasure in her own way since my husband is not giving her attention anymore. 

My husband and I am getting along well and building good memories. 

He has become a sweet husband and a good father. We have moved to a better place. 

I am grateful for everything and trying hard to restore happiness. 

Now, I know that I can rebuild my home and family. 

We lived separately for a long time since my husband was out of his mind seeing the adulteress. 

Now, we know that the adulteress was only an object of relieving stress and they never loved each other. 

I plan to finish my treatment and give my husband an opportunity to treat relationship addiction.  

Then, I will file a lawsuit against the adulteress. 

"There is no love in infidelity."

Thank you. 

120