I collapsed and fell for a psychological disorder.
I hurt my wife deeply.
Then, I thought I had realized my fault and recovered myself.
I learned about KIP through my wife. I watched videos of KIP once in a while and I thought I understood my condition.
I thought it was my wife and not me who needed the treatment. I thought I was fine.
I couldn't hole myself and freely expressed my stress whenever my wife expressed her rage and wounds to me.
I made excuses and blamed other people instead of repenting.
I kept hurting my wife repeatedly and then, realized that I had problems.
I had to be brave to start taking the treatment along with my wife.
I accurately understood how dangerous condition I was in. I studied about the Theory of Mimind step by step which was quite new to me.
These days, I can apply what I have learned in daily life.
I can see how people are doing and I feel composed for the first time in my life.
I have realized what a fatal mistake I made, how easily such things can happen.
I have also realized that my wife saved me through great love and effort in spite of all her wounds.
My wife and I spend a lot of time together talking and encouraging each other.
I still have a long way to go, but I will do my best to become stronger and protect my family.
No word would be enough to express my gratitude to my wife.
I will thank her, cherish her, and love her forever.
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Posted by Korea Institute of Psycho-Education
Date 2023-06-08
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You must restore comfort and happiness and make others around you happy again.
Most people don't realize their fault and justify their thoughts and behaviors.
They make others suffer and destroy their own life.
You were wise enough to correct your errors and make efforts to protect your wife.
Your behaviors will make your wife be convinced that she made a right choice by choosing your as a husband and lived happily with with you. She can restore trust and live happily again.
Please, keep your initial intention and continue with your treatment until you reach complete cure and happiness ability.