1. Before treatment

I cannot refrain myself from smiling when I think about the time before I took the treatment. 

I started to take Mind Training due to husband infidelity, but I found in the process how many wounds and negative memories I had during my entire life. 

2. During treatment 

It has be a little longer than 2 years since I started the treatment. 

I am making efforts to focus on my therapeutic tasks without paying attention to other things. 

I felt comfortable and calm after about 100 days after starting the treatment 

and I even wanted to thank my husband for giving me a chance to take the treatment program. 

The person who changed was my son. He changed from a body who had a tic disorder and was highly sensitive to a sweet boy

who always wanted to help his mom. His symptoms of tic disorder simply disappeared 

one day after I learned Mother Therapy and applied the right parenting strategies. 

He is 14 years old and so talkative and he studies very hard at school. He is anything but a rebellious and depressed adolescent. 
I feel so grateful that I can enjoy happiness with with my children staying at home in this pandemic era. 

I was a bit anxious about the rate of my progress even when I focused on my therapeutic tasks.

Then, I decided to take Xes Training to consolidate happiness ability as well as out of curiosity. 
I realized that I didn't know how to love myself in the right way as I proceeded with Xes Training. 
I found out that I was still begging attention from my husband to treat my own wounds. 
I learned more in depth about what to do to focus only on myself. 
I still have some way to go but I don't feel anxious about my progress any more. 

3. Final remark

I decided to take the treatment after I watched Mr. Kim's videos. In one of them, he talked about a wife who  supports her husband in a true sense. 
I used to think that the wife can support the husband by sacrificing and enduring. 

Then, I was asking for his care and attention to be compensated for my sacrifice and endurance with unhappy mind and negative behaviors. 
I even enjoyed having fun by myself without telling him to give him the impression that I was always sacrificing. 

I learned from Mind Training that the wife should be happy as a woman, a wife, and a mother to support the husband in a true sense. 
So many people have wrong concept about marriage relationship from generation to generation.
I feel moved that I can stop the wrong concept in my generation and pass down the right concept to the next generation. 

Jeju Island, where Therapy Tour was held, will always be a place of healing, love and gratitude in my memory. 
I hope it will be resumed when the pandemic situation is over. 
Cheer up everyone!! Thank you. 

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