My husband was always busy with frequent business trips and I didn't care much since I was also busy with child rearing.
We were distant from each other but didn't think much of it. Then, we began to fight more and more and we couldn't understand each other.
I denied the situation since I couldn't understand anything. I didn't want to spend the rest of my life in such a condition and didn't want to stay in a bad relationship.
I had to stop this! I guess I was vaguely waiting for the right time to sever the relationship.
I accidentally watched Mr. Kim's Youtube videos and I was impressed with the depth and clarity of the theory.
I realized that I was in deep depression and understood why was having a difficult time.
I received a reply e-mail from Mr. Kim and the explanation and guidance made a lot of sense to me. I started the treatment right away. It was one year ago.
I focus on the therapeutic tasks for a couple of months and then, I began to see things and people around me differently.
I was able to understand behaviors of myself and others.
I stayed at home most of the time where I felt safe and comfortable doing therapeutic tasks. I felt that I was born again and building my own new nest.
I am so glad that I made a right choice. It was worth my time, effort, and expense.
It took courage and will power for me to get out the quagmire of depression and miserable relationship.
I am sorry that we spent so much time fighting because we were both ignorant.
We don't fight anymore and I feel compassion toward my husband. Both of did our best for our marriage in our own way.
I feel calm and composed.
I want to thank Mr. Kim and all the staff at KIP. I hope they will keep saving people from pain and suffering by guiding them into the right direction so that they can restore happiness and protect their family.
I will keep doing self-check on progress.
Best regards to everyone.
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Posted by Korea Institute of Psycho-Education
Date 2023-05-11
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You seem to have started right away since you were looking for the right way for your happiness.
You also seem to have composure after making efforts for your treatment for the last year.
Please, remember that you must continue doing therapeutic tasks until you achieve complete cure.
Please, read your review to remind yourself of your initial intention.