I am writing a review in 16th week of treatment. 

My wife had conflicts, we had fights over this and that matter, we were distant from each other, and we just focused on parenting. 

However, I had never imagined my wife's infidelity even in my wildest dream.   

I learned about her infidelity from proofs I found here and there. 

I felt all my life collapsed and nothing was meaningful. 

I felt my heart was torn to pieces. I suffered and I wanted to kill myself. 

I searched information on Youtube channels and Internet day and night. 

I accidentally watched Mr. Kim's video. 

He said the cause of infidelity was nothing but relationship addiction. 

He also said that the victimized spouse should never adopt practical measures to resolve the situation, 

treat his own post traumatic stress, protect children, and then, give the spouse an opportunity to treat herself. 

I watched his videos for several days and nights. 

I decided to take the treatment after blaming myself and suffering for some time. 

I had decades of life in front of me. I had to be able to live a normal life. 

My children had a whole life in front of them. They had to be able to live a happy life. 

Time and expense were less important them our lives. 

I thought I had to treat myself to save me and my children and maybe my wife too. 

I wouldn't lose this opportunity. 

I visited the KIP office and made payment with a heavy heart. 

I got my textbook and began watching training videos and doing therapeutic tasks. 

I am amazed at the change I have been experiencing week by week. 

I am simply awed by my psychological stabilization and physical change every day. 

Many members mention the amazement that can never be imagined by people who have not experienced. 

I am experiencing it. 

Now in 16th week of treatment, I listen to training videos and do therapeutic tasks. 

Had I not listened to Mr. Kim's advice, had I adopted practical measures to resolve the situation, had I interrogated my wife with rage and anger, had I taken psychology counseling, aggravating my condition, I wouldn't be smiling at my children and they wouldn't be smiling at me. 

I would have lost all my hope and ruined my children, my family, and my life. 

I do therapeutic tasks everyday determined that I will protect my children and restore my family. 

I can keep my determination by Mr. Kim's short words for the feedback of my self-check every week : 

"Please, keep it up."

Tears flow suddenly and I can't stop. 

I hope it wouldn't delay my cure? 

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