I realized that my husband was not able to have any idea how much pain I was suffering from
so it was absolutely meaningless to expect him to understand my suffering and console men.
I realized that I was obsessed for his attention.
I learned that women's happiness starts from treating wounds and only women themselves can treat their own wounds.
I learned that I can keep going looking at myself growing day be day instead of comparing myself with other people
just like the lyric of the song, 'For tomorrow that will be better than today'.
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Posted by Korea Institute of Psycho-Education
Date 2023-11-21
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Your husband has relationship addiction and you have had post traumatic stress.
You chose to start your own condition regardless of your husband's condition.
As you interact with your husband asking him to understand your condition and give attention and consolation, both your condition and your husband's condition deteriorate.
As you feel comfortable in the process of treatment, you naturally try to interact with your husband.
Then, you may develop dependency and obsession for your husband repeating your suffering, which slows down your treatment.
When you realize that it is critical to focus on your treatment regardless of your husband's condition, your treatment will take less time than you expected.
It is important to focus on all the tasks in the process of treatment.
You will see your life being transformed into a happy one soon.
Please, keep your initial intention and keep making efforts.